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  1. craig carlvin on March 28, 2022 at 7:18 am

    as a young man interested in older women i would personaly say …….YES u are a liabilitiy but that doesnt mean theres no space for love and from my view older woman basically show more love which makes most of the type of relationships mutual

  2. Mina Arroyo on March 28, 2022 at 7:18 am

    Younger guys are more respectful and full of life. My guy is 12 years younger and I’m the happiest I have ever been. People look at us and just think we are just adorable and cutest couple.

  3. Arica Campbell on March 28, 2022 at 7:19 am

    42, trying to fight my feelings for a man about 20 years younger. 🤦🏾‍♀️he’s not having it, but I love how crazy he is about me.

  4. Natural Bae on March 28, 2022 at 7:21 am

    I’m 39 and he’s 30, he’s more established than I am but he is absolutely amazing and everything I desired in a man

  5. lamujermaslinda on March 28, 2022 at 7:22 am

    From a spiritiual/religious perspective, it is often recommended that you avoid dating someone that’s younger.

  6. Amanda on March 28, 2022 at 7:23 am

    Marry younger men..He take care of the kids and stay up at night to take care of newborn . Because he is younger and have more energy 😆

  7. Joi X on March 28, 2022 at 7:24 am

    Older men can be ageist too but hunnie the older women they look down on still got it. Cause women especially black women have a gift of still looking and feeling young even when we are older.

  8. Charles Adu Boahen on March 28, 2022 at 7:24 am

    My wife is way older than me and we’ve been together for almost 3 years and it always feel like meeting for the first time. The connection and energy is all good. We appreciate and understand each other very well. I never bonded so well with my age mates but with her is super good

  9. Its me K on March 28, 2022 at 7:26 am

    He is so persistently contacting me while I try to stay away for years.. and I’m trying to figure out how to stay away from him … 😔 it really hard..!

  10. BELO TV on March 28, 2022 at 7:26 am

    I’m 23 and I love older women🥰😍 I feel as though all my life so far I never got any attention or compliments or any form of attractive hints from girls my age or below, however I’ve definitely gotten all the above from older women and I see why I love older women for this I just always been scared to make a move cause I don’t know how they really feel about it or maybe their already settled down with a man, single ones are hard to find I guess cause at a more older age your most likely not single, ohh yeah and then kids too I feel like that’s what’s stops me from making conversation is I’m afraid of being told I have kids who are your age or something between those lines, but it definitely doesn’t change my view on my preference I love you lady’s♥️😘

  11. Top $hotta Boy💎 on March 28, 2022 at 7:29 am

    I just wondering myself ? I give you an example would you date an 22 years old? Or are you going to say maybe you to young for my? Like I don’t know how old are you at the moment. But to me that happend. When I liked an older woman she says you to young for my and stuff. So what can I do in this situation? I think it’s not such a big difference if I date someone who is 29 or 30 years old.

  12. Gladys Effah on March 28, 2022 at 7:31 am

    I agree with you

  13. Taasch on March 28, 2022 at 7:31 am

    Im a 32 year old Italian man dating a 45 year old Salvadoran woman. We just CLICK! I can’t deal with the younger girls tbh. I can’t stand the childish behavior one bit and have no time for it in a partner. For kids, sure. For adults? No. I don’t like the hook up culture and I was raised by WW2:vets so I guess you could say I have an antiquated view on love and Romance….or just younger girls can’t appreciate when you pull out their chair or hold the door opened or do candle lit dinners after the sun goes down. Too many want to party to hear days and I find it very unladylike tbh. With her I can do that, have the bonfires and coffee, go camping and hiking. I couldn’t find a girl my age or younger who liked these things to save my own life! It’s just crazy! So I started dating older and then I finally got the mental and spiritual stimulation I was after.

  14. Nqobani Ncube on March 28, 2022 at 7:31 am

    I’m 32 & she’s 37

  15. Heather taylor on March 28, 2022 at 7:32 am

    I am 71 and my younger friend age 39 wants a relationship with me. He lived with my husband and I as my husbands caregiver so we share common memories and mental hardships dealing with his death. We have drawn closer together dealing with his loss but nothing physical by any means. Help

  16. Saint cecelia❣ on March 28, 2022 at 7:33 am

    When a younger man date an older woman .that younger man really admire that older woman…27 to a 53 yr. Old….he really wants to love and care for me. Drive many miles to see me….he is crazy about me and I absolutely love it, I don’t care plus I am so broke too lol..just going back to school too to get certification!

  17. Fredo Santana on March 28, 2022 at 7:34 am

    Shoutout all the woman in these comments who date younger men , me myself I love dating older woman always have I like to have a much older woman instead of a girl my age ☺️❤️

  18. DVMN on March 28, 2022 at 7:36 am

    I would say stick to someone in your generation the youngest should be 2-5 years and the oldest should be about the same lmao that way y’all both can grow together lol

  19. Sisanda Boom on March 28, 2022 at 7:38 am

    He is 23 and I’m 32.

  20. Bearforce1 on March 28, 2022 at 7:39 am

    I totally agree. Thank you for keeping it real.

  21. MERICAS SHEPHERD on March 28, 2022 at 7:43 am

    I’m 34 and he’s 23. I have never felt so loved and felt so important to someone in my whole life. I was married for 8 yrs and have never felt this. I have a job and car but nothing else so I k ow he’s not with me looking for someone to take care of him.

  22. Half Black Woman’s Opinion on March 28, 2022 at 7:45 am

    This is the problem when people present as knowledgeable about a subject they know very little about. This is the stereotypical opinion not backed by any research. A conman is a conman no matter the woman’s age older women just may be targeted more because of they are more likely to have an income etc, but that does not logically apply to other men who are not conmen or usually out to abuse women so context is important and is missing here. Likewise what do you mean by younger men? This was not defined. You seem to be focused on young men and not younger men . There is a difference here. A man of 45 dating a woman of 50 plus is a younger man than his older wife or partner but he is clearly not a young man. This video was not useful and really you knew nothing about the topic.

  23. Jenna on March 28, 2022 at 7:46 am

    The truth is it is all fun, anything serious and a younger man will run. Younger men are good for fun, but that is it and as women many of us know this ahead of time. Now younger men are more open minded about what a woman looks like when they are younger, but as men get older they become very picky.

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  25. Kosmos on March 28, 2022 at 7:47 am

    I’d love to meet older woman. I’ve had this thing for older women ever since I’m a kid. I am 26

  26. D W on March 28, 2022 at 7:48 am

    a few years age gap is one thing, I personally have a 7-year rule. But I gently turn down ones 10 and 20+ years younger than me. I’m not a cradle robber or a mother. Dating too young is morally wrong to me. But, no judgement toward what works for other people. I know Demi, Cher, Madonna, E Taylor did it to, but in the end, they all broke it off or got dumped.

  27. sweeteime on March 28, 2022 at 7:49 am

    Love your video. Very realistic and objective

  28. Trinese Baldwin on March 28, 2022 at 7:52 am

    I need that hair where you get it.?

  29. Charles Dikenson on March 28, 2022 at 7:52 am

    Why do people lie to themselves we all know the natural order doesn’t work like that yet we force it huh 🙄🤔

  30. Diamondtasha_Nailz on March 28, 2022 at 7:56 am

    I’ve been in this situation and I was approached by this gentleman more than once who looks a lot older and was trying everything to get my attention we went on are 1st date to more More and the more I got to know him than I found out his age and I was Shocked 😳 I never dated this young He’s 25 I’m 37 Im sorry that bothers me at times and I just don’t like that .. so I just told him let’s just be friends but not in a relationship right now … it’s me … yes thus is All very Recent 😮‍💨 2021.. Lord God😩

  31. George Tsoullis on March 28, 2022 at 7:58 am

    I disagree that all men desire money from an older woman, my relationship being a prime example. I personally had to find a woman that actually understands me and pushes me, and being too mature for my age I found her. I have a good paying job also 🙂

  32. NYLA SPEAKS on March 28, 2022 at 7:58 am

    I met a younger rich guy…however i do look very young for being almost 50 (I sometimes still get carded) well anyway the guy is 29 and I know I will not date him because he is a kid to me….I really prefer older men…

  33. Marketwizard on March 28, 2022 at 7:58 am

    I’m a massage therapist & I always have older women try and make moves on me . I’ve always wanted to get involved with one but don’t want to come off as unprofessional. Hopefully some day .

  34. Ndech Rioki on March 28, 2022 at 8:00 am

    I wanna date an older woman than me ,they are mature n full of life n loving them is easy n true ..i want one😞

  35. Brandy Hyland on March 28, 2022 at 8:01 am

    My 27 year old has been chasing me for 2 years. I’m 45. We recently starting dating and having amazing sex. I have been married twice and we are more compatible than any relationship I have ever had

  36. Sergio W on March 28, 2022 at 8:01 am

    She doesn’t have a "bag" like that but I do feel that her energy is positive and our life goals/ dreams are the same. I admire her drive her determination to get through even though her life is difficult, I just feel a spiritual connection and a desire to marry her so we can get to the 💰💰 I need to learn from her relentlessness to achieve. She’s a published author and I’m a up and coming poet. We even match as I’m a Scorpio and She’s a Pisces. Halloween baby and a St. Patrick’s day baby. Gap is She’s about to be 45 and I’ll be 30 this year. When love is in the air I tend not to care.

  37. CeCe on March 28, 2022 at 8:01 am

    Crazy some of these points even apply to dating same age men.

  38. Haseo Zenith Maru on March 28, 2022 at 8:04 am

    I mat have a twin

  39. Laura Ogagbe on March 28, 2022 at 8:04 am

    Is it right for me dating a guy younger than me with just 2 years? I so much love him but I don’t know if am taking a right decision dating him. Please I really need advise

  40. Divingmichelle on March 28, 2022 at 8:05 am

    I know some younger guys and they’re more polite and respectful than men who are say 42, 45, 50+ I don’t know what they think of me like at all but any time I’d see them and just say hi and interacting with them platonic of course like think work environment but not necessarily work, they’re 99.9% polite, respectful I don’t feel like they’d take advantage of me gentlemanly etc. Maybe it’s a generational thing lol I don’t know…

  41. Maltada bir adanali on March 28, 2022 at 8:06 am

    İ have a friend who is 33 years old and merrield with 65 years old and different is 32 years so they are happy 😊😁😁😁

  42. Morgan Bmgtow on March 28, 2022 at 8:06 am

    It rare to hear a woman giving women good advice; very refreshing; however she referred to an older woman’s raw lust for sex sex from a younger men as love❓No its raw sex only💪🏾Other than that huge omission she gave great advice..

  43. suzy canstyle on March 28, 2022 at 8:07 am

    Am 23 his 20 his so caring and matured,,,he left the country few months ago…he always planning a future with,,all his family member Know me,his parets ,they like me….but am afraid because of the age,, what if he changes with his age changing…

  44. Geno Vasquez on March 28, 2022 at 8:09 am

    I’m 44 i prefer women 18 to 23. This is her prime. Its much more rewarding than being with women over 30.

  45. Katy Arnold on March 28, 2022 at 8:10 am

    Hello, Black Swan Relationship Academy. Very informative video. I am a older woman and I just won’t be a mother to a guy my age or a younger man. And I won’t be giving them any money either. I would caution any woman that is older and thinking about dating a younger man please let God guide you. I wouldn’t date a younger unless God said he is the one and the age gap is not to far off.

  46. Joi X on March 28, 2022 at 8:12 am

    You won’t believe my age by looking at me I attract men that think I’m still 21 or 19 and I just love younger men cause they love to fall in love they are so fun good looking and ambitious they are in they hustle and in their bag they are in the beginning of trying to find a family or build something. Also in bed 😛😻 I love them they love me

  47. Cosmo on March 28, 2022 at 8:13 am

    I picked up a number of this woman at a wedding, so I thought would be older but not by much. I’m 26, she’s about 34. I’m a bit of an old soul myself. But she’s fixated on our age gap and won’t consider it. What a shame.

  48. Child of the Higher Power on March 28, 2022 at 8:13 am

    I’m a older woman looking for a younger mature minded man that does not mind making a living on his own. Someone to go out and have fun, the age have to been at least 50 to 55. I’m 60 myself but very active with 2 jobs, not trying to buy them but looking to be cordial with them.

  49. Dintle Moletsane on March 28, 2022 at 8:15 am

    I’m 35 and dating a 23 year old and everything you addressed in this video is factual

  50. Dave Claude on March 28, 2022 at 8:16 am

    I’m 22 and met a 28 yr old recently. Any advice? I really like her and she says I’m mature and that she also likes me. We are both Christians and have similar values. I find most girls my age too immature and wondering if anyone has advice?