4 Surprising Reasons Men Love Dating Older Women

4 Surprising Reasons Men Love Dating Older Women

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Here are FOUR powerful reasons why men actually LOVE dating older women and why you should never let your age stand in the way of being open to love.

Do men like older women? Why are men attracted to younger women? Should I date a man younger than me? Are younger men worth dating? These are all very common questions I get from clients and students that they often using to talk themselves OUT of being in connection with men, so I’m here to set the record STRAIGHT 🙂

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  1. The Garden Muse on March 22, 2022 at 12:29 am

    Thank You! I needed to see this.

  2. Jan Khane Aguilar on March 22, 2022 at 12:30 am

    I like Twice Nayeon. She was born in 1995 while me 2004 which is 9 years of an integer number. Is that even big though? Let me know if I learn it.

  3. Gypsymumma90 on March 22, 2022 at 12:30 am

    I felt like an idot in bed tonight 😫😫😫Some days I feel like I got it while although days I feel great …

  4. Fluer on March 22, 2022 at 12:33 am

    Thank you for this great video 🙂

  5. Zoli on March 22, 2022 at 12:34 am

    I wonder how it would feel like

    I actually prefer older women as well, since I can feel the real female when I look at them

  6. Leah Janulgue on March 22, 2022 at 12:34 am

    I’m 30 and I’m in love with a 24 guy. Is that okay?

  7. Jaqueline I. C. de Lima on March 22, 2022 at 12:36 am

    OMG! I’m surprised about the masculine! I thought it was the opposite!

  8. Monk Pool on March 22, 2022 at 12:38 am

    I just love wifey women

  9. Mr. Q on March 22, 2022 at 12:41 am

    my current gf is 10 years older than me, but physically and mentally she looks younger than me =)))

  10. Toilet Seat Scholar on March 22, 2022 at 12:42 am

    Lots of caviots to this advice I believe. One obvious has to do with goals, and if the man wants children.

  11. Nell Simpson on March 22, 2022 at 12:42 am

    Wow I was wondering why alot of young men approach me….thought they were just being nice lol

  12. B Q on March 22, 2022 at 12:43 am

    Oh God. Poor Men. They’ve slept around so much, deposited their dirt all over the place (both physical & mental), and now they’re soooo experienced 👎

  13. Grace Ucat on March 22, 2022 at 12:44 am

    Thanks for this video Mat!
    A 30 years old single decent good looking guy said that he likes me, that he likes my personality and my body. I tried to discouraged him every now and then so he will stop the communication. I’m kinda worried because I know I’ll fall for him anytime if I let myself to. We met in person twice and the connection is so amazing. He’s job and business is doing well while me is a single parent of 3 that works in just a little above min wage and I’m 45yo.

  14. American 🇺🇸 on March 22, 2022 at 12:45 am

    Seven years ago when I was 25 years old I dated a 41 year old woman she was beautiful Latina.

    I will say this much there has been no younger woman that can even come close! I’ll just keep this PG-13.

    I am 32 years old and I am now dating 35-38 yr old women. Much more in common but still older than me.

  15. Mat Shaffer on March 22, 2022 at 12:45 am


  16. curtis wilson on March 22, 2022 at 12:46 am

    Older women want younger men for the following reasons: They’re ready to settle down, a younger man make them feel younger, older women are more sexually active, and get straight to the point.

  17. Jennifer Pereida on March 22, 2022 at 12:47 am

    This made me feel better. Been talking to someone 7-8 years younger than me. It seems to be getting serious and he’s expressed desire in wanting to commit. I was kinda nervous about the age gap but this makes me feel better.

  18. SUSAN Williams on March 22, 2022 at 12:47 am

    Thank you for this advice! I needed it 🙂

  19. Anita Moses on March 22, 2022 at 12:48 am

    Interesting video I really like this video

  20. Joel Roy on March 22, 2022 at 12:50 am

    Older women are cool and elegant. And the older women I meet usually have a bubbly personality they so cute

  21. Reca YM on March 22, 2022 at 12:52 am

    Nicely put. Quite true. Your post will help debunk fake news about older women being jealous of younger ones. I find, more often than not, that it’s the other way around. Many older women have been called names such as "granny" or "auntie" by younger women who feel insecure, especially if their love interests are attracted to an older woman. Cheers!

  22. Fl.Cracker on March 22, 2022 at 12:53 am

    I live in Sarasota teach me my women I’m young

  23. Vegan Hippie Young Lord on March 22, 2022 at 12:53 am

    My guy is 26. We have a 30 year age gap that has lasted 5 1/2 years so far.

  24. Rose Davis on March 22, 2022 at 12:56 am

    My long time crush is 27 and I’m 37 we got a lot in common

  25. IAMWHUMXN on March 22, 2022 at 12:57 am

    The only real reason is cause he was missing a mother figure growing up

  26. Hope Outside the USA on March 22, 2022 at 12:58 am

    I totally agree that it is more relaxing to talk to an older woman, versus a younger woman. There is a lot less judgment, and less offending the older woman, than the younger. Older women are just easier to be around. Young women are beautiful but there are too many games played while trying to get into a relationship with them, and I got tired of that, so I went after older women. It’s also less embarrassing to hit on an older woman, because they usually like the compliments. A lot of younger girls would look at you as lower if you said that to them, or would treat you the same as most men because she gets complimented on all the time. Only problem is that, you really cannot MARRY a much older woman, for obvious reasons.

  27. Zainaba Abubakar on March 22, 2022 at 1:01 am

    Me and man is little odd .i have been married before with 3 kids I’m 27 and he is 34 never married before…..
    I feel too uncomfortable in that relationship. My parents some ppl out there is saying is too inappropriate to be with him..
    I don’t know about his parents but we love each other so much
    I keep hiding it to secure myself from being blame
    The funny thing is he can do anything to get me to marry him…..
    What should I do….
    I’m scared of rejection from his ppl

  28. Yomna Soliman on March 22, 2022 at 1:04 am

    I am actually flattered when I get asked out by younger men .,, but they get not only shocked that I’m older but that I am also a doctor and a single mum … then it becomes overehelming for them I think 🤷‍♀️

  29. Randalle Britt on March 22, 2022 at 1:05 am

    I am 34 and I am a male. Also I am a virgin. What do older women see about that aspect?

  30. Brian Ochse on March 22, 2022 at 1:05 am

    you are the Chris Baker, satan would get.
    Because Chris Baker is going to Heaven

  31. Marilyn Mirza on March 22, 2022 at 1:07 am

    Listening this helpful, thank you.

  32. Kevin Davidson on March 22, 2022 at 1:07 am

    I think as times have changed, so too have our standards. Women have more financial opportunities these days and men don’t have to carry that financial load. Since women no longer have to care as much about marrying someone that makes more money so that they can survive, they can find themselves, mature and dates younger.

  33. Jhilik Chakma on March 22, 2022 at 1:08 am

    I am just watching it because last night a guy who is two years younger than me proposed me…and i need some guide to know what to do

  34. Janice Rockwell on March 22, 2022 at 1:12 am

    Good match !

  35. Victoria Spencer on March 22, 2022 at 1:13 am

    I love your contents

  36. BELZY02 Belinda H on March 22, 2022 at 1:13 am

    I’ve got a crush on a guy (customer) and just found out his age 38 and I’m almost 47 but don’t look my age. He’s always had this vibe of admiring me for my wisdom and also share a lot of similarities. I really hope we get together somehow 🤔 thanks for the info it’s eased my mind of thinking he wouldn’t be interested.

  37. TheRivrPrncess on March 22, 2022 at 1:14 am

    An older woman does not have to have experience sexually. It is fine to be a virgin. The man does not have to teach her anything as a mature woman would go to a mature married woman or a mature couple to get advice. You’ve said age doesn’t matter but you turn around and say being a virgin is something that will keep a man from wanting to date an older woman. That is just not true.

  38. Marcello Woodford on March 22, 2022 at 1:15 am

    I just like a Hairy Beaver!

  39. Angela on March 22, 2022 at 1:15 am

    My boyfriend is 17 years younger than me, I’ve turned 60,he’ll be 44. He’s an American, I’m German we still live in an long distance relationship. I was afraid of it but I’m super happy with it. The chemistry between us is perfect. We laugh a lot together and have great conversations. His two kids and his mother accepted me fully.

  40. Melissa Thompson on March 22, 2022 at 1:15 am

    Thanks for this video it made me feel wonderful❤❤

  41. Woman Arise & Be Healed Writing Speaking Ministry on March 22, 2022 at 1:17 am

    Thanks for this topic. Without saying much l needed some understanding.

  42. Míchele Cobré on March 22, 2022 at 1:19 am

    Most older men want younger women but younger men want older women because the women their age want older men and don’t want them and younger men have it harder in dating just as it for older women and younger men seek maternal energy just as younger women seek out older men with paternal energy

  43. Julie Thomas on March 22, 2022 at 1:21 am

    Yeah, until she finds out he’s looking at younger women. 🙄

  44. Jennifer VM on March 22, 2022 at 1:23 am

    men love cougar when theyre beautiful.

  45. EBecky on March 22, 2022 at 1:24 am

    My former co-worker told me on multiple occasions that he is into older women. The first time he told me was when he found out I was eight years older than him. (I look young for my age.) The flirting was literally none stop.

  46. B Q on March 22, 2022 at 1:24 am

    “Older woman means same age as Man”. This sums up Male Narcissm. And Male stupidity

  47. GeLo10 on March 22, 2022 at 1:26 am

    Haha im 32 my man is 20 so how boot that😂😘

  48. Garincha Hermelijn on March 22, 2022 at 1:26 am

    beautiful, you understand it!

  49. camille Luna on March 22, 2022 at 1:26 am

    wish i have ine

  50. linda connelley on March 22, 2022 at 1:27 am

    I wouldn’t mind a younger man😍